In the hustle and bustle of daily life, busy moms and dads don't always have the time to focus on etiquette. But if you reinforce these 25 must-do manners, you'll raise a polite, kind, well-liked child.
生活工作太忙碌,爸爸媽媽們不一定有時(shí)間關(guān)注孩子的禮儀教養(yǎng),不過(guò),只要注意將這25條教給孩子就行啦。
Manner #1
When asking for something, say "Please."
問(wèn)別人話的時(shí)候先說(shuō)“請(qǐng)”。
Manner #2
When receiving something, say "Thank you."
別人給了自己什么東西,要說(shuō)“謝謝”。
Manner #3
Do not interrupt grown-ups who are speaking with each other unless there is an emergency.
不要打斷大人們的談話,除非真的有急事。
Manner #4
If you do need to get somebody's attention right away, the phrase "excuse me" is the most polite way for you to enter the conversation.
如果真的需要跟某人說(shuō)話,最好先說(shuō)一句“打擾了”。
Manner #5
When you have any doubt about doing something, ask permission first. It can save you from many hours of grief later.
如果在做一件事前拿不定主意,先去征求父母的意見(jiàn)和許可。
Manner #6
The world is not interested in what you dislike. Keep negative opinions to yourself, or between you and your friends, and out of earshot of adults.
別人不關(guān)心你討厭什么,所以一些批評(píng)言論最好只是跟朋友們隨便說(shuō)說(shuō),不要傳得人盡皆知。
Manner #7
Do not comment on other people's physical characteristics unless, of course, it's to compliment them, which is always welcome.
不要對(duì)別人品頭論足,當(dāng)然稱贊他人的外表是必要的。
Manner #8
When people ask you how you are, tell them and then ask them how they are.
當(dāng)別人向你問(wèn)好時(shí),記得禮貌作答,并且也問(wèn)候他們。
Manner #9
When you have spent time at your friend's house, remember to thank his or her parents for having you over and for the good time you had.
在朋友家做客時(shí)要向朋友的父母表達(dá)感謝。
Manner #10
Knock on closed doors -- and wait to see if there's a response -- before entering.
進(jìn)房間前先敲門。
Manner #11
When you make a phone call, introduce yourself first and then ask if you can speak with the person you are calling.
打電話時(shí)先講明自己是誰(shuí),然后再找自己想要找的人。而不是一開(kāi)口就問(wèn)XXX在嗎。
Manner #12
Be appreciative and say "thank you" for any gift you receive. In the age of e-mail, a handwritten thank-you note can have a powerful effect.
收到禮物后要表達(dá)感謝,手寫(xiě)的感謝信比發(fā)電子郵件要好。
Manner #13
Never use foul language in front of adults. Grown-ups already know all those words, and they find them boring and unpleasant.
別在大人面前說(shuō)臟話,大人們對(duì)臟話了如指掌,并且他們已經(jīng)厭倦那些詞語(yǔ)了。
Manner #14
Don't call people mean names.
不要對(duì)人口出惡言。
Manner #15
Do not make fun of anyone for any reason. Teasing shows others you are weak, and ganging up on someone else is cruel.
任何情況下都不要嘲笑別人,這只會(huì)顯示出你自己的軟弱,對(duì)被嘲笑的人來(lái)說(shuō)也是件殘酷的事。
Manner #16
Even if a play or an assembly is boring, sit through it quietly and pretend that you are interested. The performers and presenters are doing their best.
看演出時(shí)就算再無(wú)聊也要保持安靜,臺(tái)上演出的人是付出了實(shí)實(shí)在在的努力的。
Manner #17
If you bump into somebody, immediately say "Excuse me."
撞到人的時(shí)候要立刻說(shuō)抱歉。
Manner #18
Cover your mouth when you cough or sneeze, and don't pick your nose in public.
咳嗽或者打噴嚏的時(shí)候要遮住嘴,并且公開(kāi)場(chǎng)合不要摳鼻孔。
Manner #19
As you walk through a door, look to see if you can hold it open for someone else.
進(jìn)出一扇門的時(shí)候記得停一小會(huì),幫后面的人把門開(kāi)著。
Manner #20
If you come across a parent, a teacher, or a neighbor working on something, ask if you can help. If they say "yes," do so -- you may learn something new.
看到父母、老師或者鄰居在忙什么的時(shí)候,問(wèn)一句能不能幫手。幫忙的過(guò)程中你也會(huì)學(xué)到一點(diǎn)半點(diǎn)東西。
Manner #21
When an adult asks you for a favor, do it without grumbling and with a smile.
當(dāng)大人請(qǐng)你幫忙做什么事的時(shí)候,別抱怨,記得帶著微笑去完成。
Manner #22
When someone helps you, say "thank you." That person will likely want to help you again.
別人幫了你的忙,記得說(shuō)謝謝,這樣他們下次也會(huì)樂(lè)意幫助你。
Manner #23
Use eating utensils properly. If you are unsure how to do so, ask your parents to teach you or watch what adults do.
正確使用餐具。不知道怎么用的時(shí)候就問(wèn)父母,或者觀察其他大人是怎么使用的。
Manner #24
Keep a napkin on your lap; use it to wipe your mouth when necessary.
把餐巾放在大腿上,需要的時(shí)候拿來(lái)擦嘴。
Manner #25
Don't reach for things at the table; ask to have them passed.
不要伸手去拿桌子上離自己比較遠(yuǎn)的東西,請(qǐng)旁邊的人幫你傳過(guò)來(lái)。